When does a “just a remark” become more?

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29/09/2026

When does a “just a remark” become more?
A recent report on Dutch secondary schools highlights how difficult it can be to draw the line.
More than 2,000 students shared experiences of sexual misconduct with NOS Stories — from sexually explicit remarks to more serious forms of abuse. Many also said they did not report what happened because of shame or because it felt “not serious enough”.
A joke.
A comment.
A “harmless” remark.
What do we start accepting as normal?
At UNITY Project CERV, we explore how language, media and everyday communication can shape the environments we live in — and how we can challenge harmful behaviour before it becomes normalised.
Sometimes, it starts with taking a remark seriously.
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